Sundance 2014: The dilemmas of having it all in 'Happy Christmas'

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Actress Elisabeth Moss, with the film “The One I Love.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Melissa Benoist, from the film “Whiplash.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Michael Winterbottom, left, and actors Steve Coogan and Rob Brydon, with the film “The Trip to Italy.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Steve Coogan, with the film “The Trip to Italy.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actors and co-directors Jemaine Clement and Taika Waititi, from the film “What We Do in the Shadows.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Musician Nick Cave, subject of the film “20,000 Days on Earth.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Sara Colangelo, with the film “Little Accidents.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Elizabeth Banks, Jacob Lofland and Boyd Holbrook, with the film “Little Accidents.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Boyd Holbrook, with the film “Little Accidents.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Elizabeth Banks, with the film “Little Accidents.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Jacob Lofland, with the film “Little Accidents.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Amy Carlson, from left, Matt Walsh, Meredith Hagner, Jason Ritter (front, arms open) director David Cross (hiding behind), Erinn Hayes, Jake Cherry and James Adomian, with the film “Hits.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Meredith Hagner, with the film “Hits.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Jason Ritter, with the film “Hits.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Erinn Hayes, with the film “Hits.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Amy Carlson, with the film “Hits.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor James Adomian, with the film “Hits.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Kate Barker-Froyland, actresses Mary Steenburgen and Anne Hathaway and composers Jonathan Price and Jenny Lewis, with the film, “Song One.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Matt Walsh, with the film “Hits.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Mary Steenburgen, with the film “Song One.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor and producer Mark Duplass, with the film “The One I Love.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Kurt Russell, with the documentary “The Battered Bastards of Baseball,” about his father, Neil Oliver “Bing” Russell. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Thomas Balmés, of the documentary “Happiness.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Brit Marling from the film “I Origins.,” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Chaz Ebert, left, and director Steve James with the documentary. “Life Itself,” about the late film critic Roger Ebert. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Astrid Berges-Frisbey from the film “I Origins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Lea Thompson with the film “Ping Pong Summer.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Michael Pitt with the film “I Origins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Bill Hader with the film “Skeleton Twins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Mike Cahill, director of the film “I Origins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Imogene Wolodarksy, left, director Maya Forbes, actress Ashley Aufderheide and actor Mark Ruffalo with the film “Infinitely Polar Bear.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Zeresenay Berhane Mehari and actress Meron Getnet with the film “Difret.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Imogene Wolodarksy from the film “Infinitely Polar Bear.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Stephanie Ellis with the film “The Sleepwalker.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Pasquale Rotella of the documentary “Under the Electric Sky.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Catherine Keener with the film “War Story.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Desiree Akavan, left, and actress Rebecca Henderson with the film “Appropriate Behavior.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Steven Yueng with the film “I Origins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Astrid Berges-Frisbey from the film “I Origins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actors David Henry Gerson, left, and Kris Park with the short film “Chapel Perilous.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Halley Feiffer from the film “Appropriate Behavior.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Jenny Slate with the film “Obvious Child.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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John Shook, owner and chef of Los Angeles restaurant “Animal,” who created a pop-up “Animal” in Park City for Sundance. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Christopher Abbott with the film “The Sleepwalker.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Gillian Robespierre, left, and actress Jenny Slate with the film “Obvious Child.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Pasquale Rotella of the documentary “Under the Electric Sky.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Gitte Witt with the film “The Sleepwalker.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Arian Moayed with the film “Appropriate Behavior.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Directors Dan Cutforth and Jane Liptsitz of the documentary “Under the Electric Sky.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Erick Chavarria with the film “I’m A Mitzvah.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Mona Fastvold with the film “The Sleepwalker.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Aaron Paul, left, director Kat Candler and Josh Wiggins from the movie “Hellion.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Aaron Paul from the movie “Hellion.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Josh Wiggins from the movie “Hellion.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Jason Schwartzman, left, director Alex Ross Perry and Elizabeth Moss from the movie “Listen Up Phillip.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Jason Schwartzman from the movie “Listen Up Phillip.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Elizabeth Moss from the movie “Listen Up Phillip.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Josephine de La Baume from the movie “Listen Up Phillip.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Alex Ross Perry with the movie “Listen Up Phillip.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Jonathan Pryce from the movie “Listen Up Philip.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Malik Vitthal, left, John Boyega, Anika Noni Rose and Rotimi Akinosho from the movie “Imperial Dreams.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Jeff Preiss, left, Glenn Close, Elle Fanning, Flea and Amy-Jo Albany from the movie “Low Down.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Noah Silver from the movie “Jamie Marks Is Dead.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Glenn Close from the movie “Low Down.”

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Flea from the movie “Low Down.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Elle Fanning from the movie “Low Down.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Tim Daly from the movie “Low Down.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Greg Barker, left, Maryam Alkhawaja and John Battsek from the movie “We Are Giant.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Noah Silver, left, Madisen Beaty, director Carter Smith and Morgan Saylor from the movie “Jamie Marks is Dead.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Morgan Saylor from the movie “Jamie Marks is Dead.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Madisen Beaty from the movie “Jamie Marks is Dead.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Molly Shannon from the movie “Life After Beth.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Paul Reiser from the movie “Life After Beth.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Matthew Gray Gobler from the movie “Life After Beth.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Cheryl Hines from the movie “Life After Beth.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Dane DeHaan from the movie “Life After Beth.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Aubrey Plaza from the movie “Life After Beth.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Chris O’Dowd and Kelly Reilly from the movie “Calvary.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Chris O’Dowd from the movie “Calvary.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Kelly Reilly from the movie “Calvary.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Pierre Boulanger, left, Emily Browning, Hannah Murray and Olly Alexander from the movie “God Help the Girl.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Olly Alexander from the movie “God Help the Girl.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Emily Browning from the movie “God Help the Girl.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Pierre Boulanger from the movie “God Help the Girl.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Hannah Murray from the movie “God Help the Girl.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Paul Eenhoorn, left, Aaron Katz, Martha Stephens and Earl Lynn Nelson from the movie “Land Ho!” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Earl Lynn Nelson from the movie “Land Ho!” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Paul Eenhoorn from the movie “Land Ho!” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Rory Kennedy from the movie “Last Days in Vietnam.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Laurie David, left, Katie Couric and Stephanie Soechtig from the movie “Fed Up.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Brad Takei, left, and George Takei from the movie “To Be Takei.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Bill Hader, with “The Skeleton Twins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Craig Johnson, director of “The Skeleton Twins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Cast members and the director of “A Most Wanted Man” include, from left, Philip Seymour Hoffman, director Anton Corbijn, Rachel McAdams and Willem Dafoe. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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From left, Jeremiah Bitsui, Sydney Freeland, Morningstar Angeline, and Carmen Moore with “Drunktown’s Finest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Zeresenay Bermane Mehari and Meron Getnet, with the film “Difret.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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From left: Fred Abahams, Ole Solvang holding baby Ari Anna Neistat-Solvang, Anna Neistat and directors Ross Dauffman and Katy Chevigny with “E-Team.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Marcello Conte, with “Ping Pong Summer.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Emmi Shockley, with “Ping Pong Summer.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Michael Tully, director of “Ping Pong Summer.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Andrew Rossi, director of “Ivory Tower.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Cast members and the director of “Love is Strange” include, from left, director Ira Sachs, John Lithgow, Marisa Tomei, Alfred Molina and Darren Burrows. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Mike Cahill, director of “I Origins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Brit Marling, with “I Origins.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Luis Moreno Ocampo, director Edet Belzberg and Amelia Green-Dove, with “Watchers of the Sky.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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From left, Kris Perry, Sandy Stier, Jeff Zarrillo and Paul Katami, with “The Case Against 8.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Maika Monroe, with the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Joey King, with the film “Wish I Was Here.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Pierce Gagnon, with the film “Wish I Was Here.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Josh Gad, with the film “Wish I Was Here.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Directors Maxim Pozdorovkin, left, and Tony Gerber, with the documentary “The Notorious Mr. Bout.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Cast members of the film “Wish I Was Here”, including, from left, Joey King, Zach Braff, Pierce Gagnon, Kate Hudson and Josh Gad. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Zach Braff and Kate Hudson, with the film “Wish I Was Here.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Eddy Moretti, chief creative officer of Vice and executive producer of “Fishing Without Nets” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Cast members of the film “Cold in July,” including from left, Don Johnson, Wyatt Russell, director Jim Mickle, Vinessa Shaw, Michael C. Hall, Sam Shepard and Nick Damici. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Chloe Grace Moretz, from the film “Laggies.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Kaitlyn Dever, with the film “Laggies.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Sam Rockwell, with the film “Laggies.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Alex Gibney, director of the documentary “Finding Fela.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Lynn Shelton, director of the film “Laggies.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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From the film “Laggies” are, from left, cast members Sam Rockwell, Kaitlyn Dever amd Chloe Grace Moretz and director Lynn Shelton. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Dan Stevens, with the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Chase Williamson, with the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Adam Wingard, with the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Lance Reddick, with the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Sheila Kelley, of the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Lenny Abrahamson and actress Maggie Gyllenhaal, from the film “Frank.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Writer Simon Barrett, of the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Brendan Meyer, with the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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From the film “The Guest” are, from left, Lance Reddick, Dan Stevens, Sheila Kelley, director Adam Wingard, Maika Monroe, Chase Williamson, Brendan Meyer and writer Simon Barrett. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Maika Monroe, with the film “The Guest.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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From the film “Frank” are, from left, actor Scoot McNairy, director Lenny Abrahamson and actress Maggie Gyllenhaal. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Cutter Hodierne, center, with actors Abdikani Muktar, left, in white and Abubakr Mire, of the film “Fishing Without Nets.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Ashley Greene, with the film “Wish I Was Here.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Maggie Gyllenhaal, with the film “Frank.”

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Actor Scoot McNairy with the film “Frank.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Abdikani Muktar, from the film “Fishing Without Nets.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Vinessa Shaw of “Cold in July.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Sam Shepard and Vinessa Shaw appear in the thriller “Cold in July.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Don Johnson, part of the “Cold in July” cast. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Nick Damici, an actor in the thriller “Cold in July.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Greg Whiteley, director of “Mitt,” documenting Mitt Romney’s run for the presidency. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Michael C. Hall, a lead actor in “Cold in July.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Wyatt Russell, an actor in “Cold in July.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Jim Mickle, director of “Cold in July.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Cast of the movie “Camp X-Ray,” from left, Peter Sattler, Payman Maadi, Kristen Stewart and Lane Garrison. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Kristen Stewart from “Camp X-Ray.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Payman Maadi from the movie “Camp X-Ray.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Lane Garrison from the movie “Camp X-Ray.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Peter Sattler from the movie “Camp X-Ray.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Tom Bernard, left, and Michael Barker, co-presidents of Sony Pictures Classics. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Rose McGowan, with the film “Dawn.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actors Richard Ayoade, left, and Jesse Eisenberg, from the film “The Double.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Jesse Eisenberg, from the film “The Double.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Richard Ayoade, from the film “The Double.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actors Miles Teller, left, and Damien Chazelle, from the film “Whiplash.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Austin Stowell, from the film “Whiplash.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Cast of the film “Blue Ruin,” including Devin Ratray, left, Amy Hargreaves, Macon Blair and Eve Plumb. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Devin Ratray, from the film “Blue Ruin.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Amy Hargreaves, from the film “Blue Ruin.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actor Macon Blair, from the film “Blue Ruin.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Hong Khao, left, and actress Pei Pei Cheng, from the movie “Lilting.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Eve Plumb, from the film “Blue Ruin.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Writer-director Jeremy Saulnier, from the film “Blue Ruin.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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The cast of “Whiplash,” including Miles Teller, left, Melissa Benoist, Austin Stowell and Damien Chazelle. (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Actress Kate Flannery, from the film “Cooties.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

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Director Todd Miller, left, and sales agent Josh Braun, with the film “Dinosaur 13.” (Jay L. Clendenin/Los Angeles Times)

By Mark Olsen

Jan. 20, 2014 8:43 AM PT

PARK CITY, Utah -- In a movie also starring Anna Kendrick, Lena Dunham, Melanie Lynskey and Mark Webber, the real scene-stealer is Jude Swanberg, the young son of filmmaker Joe Swanberg.

At the world premiere of Papa Swanberg’s new “Happy Christmas” at Park City’s Library Theater on Sunday evening -- part of the Sundance Festival’s U.S. Dramatic Competition -- the crowd was won over by Jude’s performance in the film, shot when he was 2, but was really taken from the moment he ran to the front of the theater to be scooped up in his father’s arms for a post-screening Q&A.

Joe Swanberg introduced the screening with “I’m not going to really say anything about the movie because this is the only chance any of us are ever going to have to watch it without any idea of what it is. After this, you guys are going to tweet about it and stuff, and people are going to have expectations and they’re going to know about the plot. We get to see this fresh right now.”

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Following last year’s “Drinking Buddies,” which found Swanberg melding his improvisational approach to a more structured storytelling and use of more recognizable stars, “Happy Christmas” finds him utilizing more or less the same approach.

Working from roughly a 12-page outline, the actors had a sense of the story and the purpose of each scene, but would then collaborate with Swanberg and cinematographer Ben Richardson (who shot “Drinking Buddies” as well as Sundance breakout “Beasts of the Southern Wild”) to capture the scenes.

Swanberg here also furthers his development into a filmmaker of nimble nuance and a real sensitivity to his performers, in particular the actresses. A question from the audience specifically asked about the astonishing scene in which Dunham, Lynskey and Kendrick talk over drinks about the challenges of “having it all” and whether hitting the pause button on a career to raise a family is or is not a feminist thing to do.

Getting up for a Q&A with Lynskey, Weber, Kendrick and his son, Joe Swanberg noted that when he and his wife Kris, who was standing in the wings just a few paces away, had Jude they had to make hard decisions as to who would be the breadwinner and who would take care of their child and what that subsequently did for his wife’s sense of personal identity to suddenly find herself a stay-at-home mom.

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“We don’t see it in movies and it is something that I wanted to talk about and needs to be talked about, and so it was a big impetus for making the movie in the first place,” Swanberg said.

Lynskey, wearing the same heavy winter coat as she was in the movie, added, “Women of my generation, a lot of us have grown up as self-identified feminists from a really young age and a lot of my friends have had kids and gone through this thing of not being sure what their identity is and it being a challenge to keep in line with beliefs they’ve had about what they wanted from their life and their instincts now that they have a family.”

The film also captures a nice dynamic between Lynskey and Kendrick as sisters-in-law who are starting to feel more like family to one another. Kendrick’s role is something of a changeup for her, as her character gets pass-out drunk, smokes pot, nearly sets a house on fire and makes a startlingly direct come-on to Mark Webber’s character that will have young men the world over slapping their foreheads in disbelief.

And as for Jude, his youngest star, Swanberg noted, “We caught him at a really nice time, when he was old enough to be independent and do some things but the word ‘no’ hadn’t really fully entered his vocabulary. He was just hangin’ out.”

Shooting on film, with a bare-bones crew of five, meant that no one got many takes to get it right, not even young Jude, he said.

“Jude had to nail it,” Swanberg said. “And he really is kind of a whiz at continuity. ... He’s just a ham. He wants to laugh the same way anybody wants to laugh.”

ALSO:

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Sundance 2014: ‘Cold In July’ jumps genre onto fest’s main stage

Sundance 2014: first look at Lithgow & Molina in ‘Love Is Strange’

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