‘God has his reasons’
Greg Risling
All seemed well on Saturday for David Riley and his 10-year-old daughter,
Yvette.
The young extrovert -- part altruist and part muse -- was excited about
attending her second birthday party for the day. Cruising along in his
1932 Ford Coupe convertible, aptly named “Dad’s 32,” Riley leaned over
and told his daughter how much he loved her.
“I love you more, Dad,” Yvette responded.
Those were her last words.
Moments later, Riley lost control of his roadster, then slammed into a
median and flipped over. Pinned beneath the car’s weighty frame, he
screamed for his daughter.
There was no response.
Aided by Newport Beach paramedics, Riley was taken to a hospital, only to
be informed later that Yvette had died in the accident.
“This is the most devastating experience of my life,” he said from his
Corona del Mar home. He escaped major injury and the physical aches are
healing with the help of a support brace around his waist. However, he
and his wife, Yvonne, believe a higher power spared his life and took his
daughter’s.
“It’s such a shock for a father to lose one of his children. I wondered
why I survived and not her. We figure God has his reasons.”
The family has huddled inside their Corona del Mar home, preparing for
their daughter’s funeral. They have been supported by a large group of
friends and family, who have showered them with cards and flowers.
The condolences have been helpful, but their religious beliefs, serving
as a sturdy emotional pillar, have guided them through the grief.
“Not everybody has faith this strong,” said family friend Cathe Laurie.
“This is an amazing example of someone’s faith in God.”
Yvonne Riley is a testament to that. Sifting through pictures of Yvette,
she believes her daughter is in a better place.
“She’s in the best place you can be,” she replied. “I don’t have to worry
about her. This is a tragedy mixed with our sincere belief that she is in
heaven. That gives me peace.”
Their daughter was enrolled at Maranatha Christian Academy at Calvary
Chapel in Costa Mesa. She had recently showed interest in guitar after
listening to a gospel singer, although at 10 years old, she was enamored
by teen pop stars Brittany Spears and the Backstreet Boys.
She’ll always have a lasting legacy in the family. When her younger
sister, 9-year-old Rachelle, was born, Yvette had problems pronouncing
her name. So Yvette called her “Belle,” and the name has stuck.
Yvette had an artistic side -- probably from her father, who is a graphic
designer. Telling his daughter she was “the happiest day of his life,”
Yvette would sign cards to her father with that phrase.
“There is no greater gift than a man’s children,” Riley said. “She was my
priority, my life. I was truly blessed to have her.”
Riley’s daughter was also a humanitarian. She stuffed a backpack full of
sundries and other useful items for a homeless man she saw in her
neighborhood one Christmas.
Yvette also wrote to a man who was seriously injured and became a
quadriplegic in a traffic accident. The man, who lives in Tijuana, has
been aided by the girl’s grandmother. Any monetary contributions sent to
the Riley family will be forwarded to the injured man who is trying to
buy property so he can be closer to his doctor and the hospital.
Though there have been times when immense sorrow has hung over them like
a black cloud, there have been heartwarming moments since their
daughter’s death.
Yvonne rubbed her weary eyes Tuesday morning and found a procession of
pink ribbons adorning the eucalyptus trees along her street. A friend had
placed the bows on every trunk in memory of Yvette. With the backdrop of
the Pacific Ocean, the parade of pink looked more like a celebration of
life rather than remembering a tragic death.
“We have been overwhelmed by the expression of love,” Yvonne said.
FYI
A funeral service for Yvette Riley will be held at Calvary Chapel, 3800
Fairview Road, Costa Mesa, at 10 a.m. Thursday. In lieu of flowers,
contributions can be sent to Friends of the Poor, c/o Pat Smith, 3542
Governor Drive, San Diego 92122.
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